101-Dating Tips - Every Guy -Girl Must Know -Happy Valentines Day

Everyone knows money is tight these days and you may not be able afford a therapist or buy the popular, new dating book that may or may not apply to you, so here we are, offering 100 tips for today’s modern and sophisticated dater. Short, sweet, and to the point, these tips are easy to remember, and more importantly, easy to apply. Finding that special person who loves you and loves you just as you are may take time, but the journey is well worth the reward.

101-Dating Tips - Every Guy -Girl Must Know -Happy Valentines Day

1. Join multiple dating sites to increase your chances.

2. Don’t dismiss free dating sites. They can have surprising results.

3. Completely fill out your profile with accurate information.

4. Use proper grammar on your profile, not text speech.

5. Post recent pictures, not pictures from several years prior.

6. Get suggestions from friends and family that know you best.

7. If you’re contacted by someone you have no interest in, let them know kindly and swiftly.

8. Don’t pester someone that’s already declined your advances.

9. Suggest a real life encounter sooner, rather than later.

10. Meet in a public place where you feel comfortable.

11. Let someone know where you’re going and who you’re going with.

12. Don’t lie on your profile. The truth always comes out.

13. Trust your gut instincts. If something feels off, it probably is.

14. Don’t text for a date. People appreciate a friendly phone call.

15. First dates should always be casual.

16. Make eye contact and you’ll come off as trustworthy and confident.

17. Be punctual. Never make your date wait.

18. Smile! Don’t look miserable, even if you are. Happiness is attractive!

19. Be a good listener. People are extremely interesting when given a chance.

20. Don’t center the conversation on you and your life.

21. Ask polite but honest questions about your date.

22. Dress nice, but be comfortable.

23. Take a shower. Be hygienic and smell nice.

24. Bring a small gift; it shows how thoughtful you are.

25. Be natural. It’s easy to spot someone who’s trying way too hard.

26. If things don’t go as planned, be flexible, prepared, and have a back up option.

27. Make sure you are well-rested. No one likes a date that snores at dinner.

28. A hug or a quick kiss on the cheek are the only acceptable levels of affection.

29. Limit alcohol consumption. You don’t want your date to think you’re a lush, or worse, to see you drunk.

30. Carry cash, in case your credit card is declined.

31. Turn off your phone. No texting or calls while on the date.

32. Be attentive and a good listener.

33. If the date is truly awful, it is okay to leave early.

34. Have an escape plan to quickly and effectively end your terrible date.

35. If you’re a smoker, limit your cigarette intake.

36. Take your date somewhere where a conversation is possible.

37. Avoid bad breath! Mints, gum, even emergency mouthwash are little miracles.

38. Be a gentleman. Opening doors and pulling out chairs can go a long way.

39. Be positive! Look for the good qualities your date possess.

40. You can pick your date, but please don’t pick your nose. Or ears, for that matter.

41. Use your manners. Cover your mouth if you have to cough or sneeze.

42. Don’t chew with your mouth open. It wasn’t ok as a child, it’s not ok now.

43. Don’t inhale your food. Savor and enjoy your meal.

44. Be a flirt! Don’t be afraid to have some fun.

44. Don’t over-analyze every word or action. Stop it!

45. Sit up straight and have good posture.

46. Shave. This is not gender-specific.

47. Boring conversation? Try discussing controversial subjects! Religion, politics, and college football are a few!

48. Call your date by their name. It helps build a deeper connection.

49. Everyone hits rough patches in their life, but you’re on a date, not a therapist’s couch. No whining.

50. Confidence is great. Bragging, not so much.

51. First date? No sexual conversations. Ever.

52. Don’t force it. If there’s no spark, there’s no spark.


53. Don’t talk about old relationships.

54. No dating if you still have feelings for an old flame. It isn’t fair to anyone.

55. Don’t be upset if the date is a bomb.

56. Try something fun and different for a date.

57. Guys, pay for your ladies. It’s a matter of principle.

58. Don’t split the check unless she gives you no choice.

59. If you initiate the date, you pick up the tab.

60. Allow plenty of preparation time. Stress isn’t good for a first date.

61. Don’t be persuaded to go anywhere that makes you uncomfortable.

62. If your date has a significant other, then you shouldn’t be on the date. Period.

63. Call your date the next day. Don’t be afraid to show interest.

64. If they don’t answer the phone, move on. No crying.

65. If they don’t return a call, move on. Still no crying.

66. Don’t be overly aggressive. Your date will be easily frightened by this.

Overly Aggressive Behavior

67. If it doesn’t work out, that’s ok. You’ll find someone else.

68. Don’t be a stalker. Nobody likes a stalker.


69. Try somewhere besides the bar or the club. Spice up a first date and it will impress.

70. Tell people you’re on the dating scene. The friend of a friend may not be bad at all.

71. Try a blind date; you never know who you may meet.

72. Don’t be afraid to ask established couples for tips and tricks.

73. Try a double date. Group dates take pressure off of everyone involved.

74. Don’t play hard to get. Games will get you nowhere.

75. Be honest about your feelings. Your date will appreciate your openness

76. If you must reject someone, do it with kindness and compassion.

77. Don’t ignore a rejected suitor. End it with dignity and finality.

78. Remember that every rejection is a step towards your special cookie.

79. Keep your eyes open for love, but don’t hunt it like big game.

80. Get out there! You’ll never meet anyone in your living room.

81. Start small and make changes to improve your attitude. Those changes will show everywhere.

82. Balance work and play for a better dating life.

83. Be your own person. Your mate doesn’t define you.

84. You have to accept yourself before you can be accepted.

85. Try something new and date outside your comfort zone.

86. Don’t focus on a getting the second date. If it happens, it happens.

87. Seek out special places and things that interest you. You never know who you may bump into.

88. Don’t jump into a relationship out of loneliness. It doesn’t end well!

89. Get in shape; not just for appearance, but for a healthy state of mind.

90. Be willing to try. When you fall on your face, you’re still moving forward.

91. Be open to a relationship.

92. Be willing to trust. Good people do exist, and they’re everywhere.

93. You aren’t a teenager anymore, so act like an adult!

94. Take the time to get to know your prospective significant other.

95. Don’t rush things. A relationship will bloom on it’s own time.

96. You are unique and beautiful. Remember that.

97. Don’t rush into a physical relationship. Learn to care for the person first.

98. Make sure your values are compatible.

99. Some of the best advice comes from family and friends.

100. The truth is your cookie just isn’t done baking yet. When it’s ready you’ll meet that special cookie.

101. The happier you are the more attractive you will be to others.


Gsv Pics | Gsv Vids | Techno zip | Divine-Thought | For The Sake of Us | Gsv Films

Lovable Wallpapers - Happy Valentines Day

When love is not madness, it is not love.  ~Pedro Calderon de la Barca


Many are the starrs I see, but in my eye no starr like thee.  ~English saying used on poesy rings


Loving is not just looking at each other, it's looking in the same direction.  ~Antoine de Saint-Exupéry, Wind, Sand, and Stars, 1939


Gravitation is not responsible for people falling in love.  ~Albert Einstein


I don't understand why Cupid was chosen to represent Valentine's Day.  When I think about romance, the last thing on my mind is a short, chubby toddler coming at me with a weapon.  ~Author Unknown


For you see, each day I love you more
Today more than yesterday and less than tomorrow.
~Rosemonde Gerard


Love is a symbol of eternity.  It wipes out all sense of time, destroying all memory of a beginning and all fear of an end.  ~Author Unknown


Love - a wildly misunderstood although highly desirable malfunction of the heart which weakens the brain, causes eyes to sparkle, cheeks to glow, blood pressure to rise and the lips to pucker.  ~Author Unknown

 Gsv Pics | Gsv Vids | Techno zip | Divine-Thought | For The Sake of Us | Gsv Films

Love Always Wins - Happy Valentines Day -Story

 The story of Valentine's Day - Celebrating every year - on February 14th 

St. Valentine's Story
Let me introduce myself. My name is Valentine. I lived in Rome during the third century. That was long, long ago! At that time, Rome was ruled by an emperor named Claudius. I didn't like Emperor Claudius, and I wasn't the only one! A lot of people shared my feelings.

Claudius wanted to have a big army. He expected men to volunteer to join. Many men just did not want to fight in wars. They did not want to leave their wives and families. As you might have guessed, not many men signed up. This made Claudius furious. So what happened? He had a crazy idea. He thought that if men were not married, they would not mind joining the army. So Claudius decided not to allow any more marriages. Young people thought his new law was cruel. I thought it was preposterous! I certainly wasn't going to support that law!

Did I mention that I was a priest? One of my favourite activities was to marry couples. Even after Emperor Claudius passed his law, I kept on performing marriage ceremonies -- secretly, of course. It was really quite exciting. Imagine a small candlelit room with only the bride and groom and myself. We would whisper the words of the ceremony, listening all the while for the steps of soldiers.

One night, we did hear footsteps. It was scary! Thank goodness the couple I was marrying escaped in time. I was caught. (Not quite as light on my feet as I used to be, I guess.) I was thrown in jail and told that my punishment was death.

I tried to stay cheerful. And do you know what? Wonderful things happened. Many young people came to the jail to visit me. They threw flowers and notes up to my window. They wanted me to know that they, too, believed in love.

One of these young people was the daughter of the prison guard. Her father allowed her to visit me in the cell. Sometimes we would sit and talk for hours. She helped me to keep my spirits up. She agreed that I did the right thing by ignoring the Emperor and going ahead with the secret marriages. On the day I was to die, I left my friend a little note thanking her for her friendship and loyalty. I signed it, "Love from your Valentine."

I believe that note started the custom of exchanging love messages on Valentine's Day. It was written on the day I died, February 14, 269 A.D. Now, every year on this day, people remember. But most importantly, they think about love and friendship. And when they think of Emperor Claudius, they remember how he tried to stand in the way of love, and they laugh -- because they know that love can't be beaten!



Gsv Pics | Gsv Vids | Techno zip | Divine-Thought | For The Sake of Us | Gsv Films

Top 10 tips for proposing a Girl

As the popular notion goes, men are definitely from Mars (the passionate planet), so are the Women from Venus, the love planet. A nature's most wonderful creation, a girl loves unconditionally and her love is forever. She can love like there is no tomorrow and hate like you wish you would die. As solid and patient as earth, she can be a protector, a healer a creator and a destroyer. Proposing a girl can certainly be a bit tricky but not impossible. So guys if you are sailing in the confused boat unaware of the way to propose a girl, look out at the following tips to get ideas on how to propose her and be hers forever. We wish you all the best!


Proposing a Girl

* Do a little homework. Get to know your girl well, before you pop the question. Get to know her interests, her dislikes, and her general nature that will help you plan your proposal in a better way. If she is shy and an introvert, propose when you two are alone. If she is sporty and loves adventure, then take her for rock climbing and propose when you reach at the top.

* The age old way of going down on knees in public is still the best way to propose a girl. Don’t try this idea with a shy and introvert girl as she might find it difficult to reciprocate as it could be embarrassing.

* Words matter a lot to girls if said genuinely or else they can easily figure out the topping of gloss you have added and will be unaffected. If you can write well, write a poem for her and record it in a CD. Play it while you are together and see her melting.

* All girls love flowers. So get a huge bouquet of roses and tell her how much you love her and how much she means to you. Tell her you would like to spend the rest of your life with her or alone. Be ready to be smothered by a genuinely happy woman's hug!

* Gestures have a great role to play in proposing a girl as they take a quick notice of it. Show your gentle, protective and emotional dependence nature while you are around her and mean it too. Girls fall for guys with these qualities and there will be no ground for rejection when you will propose her.

* Appreciate her for what she is. Tell her "you look beautiful" when she does not have any make up on. Tell her she looks amazing when she is having a bad day and mean it. She will love you for it and will readily agree when you propose. Just don't overdo it, as it will look fake.

* Girls love to be pampered so when you intend to propose, make sure you are chivalrous enough to make her feel special and at the same time not look vulnerable. Women want a strong man, not a wimp.

* You can even propose the girl at a place where you first met or a place you have fond memories of as these places have an association attached to it that will give less chance to her for refusal.

* Don't force her to say yes. The worst you can do is to push her around and threaten her dignity. Tell her to take her time and that you shall wait. Be a gentleman and respect her. Incase she doesn't want a relationship; she will let you know of it then and there.